Tomorrow, February 14th, is Valentine’s Day, another retail gold mine involving chocolates, roses, teddy bears, more chocolate and occasionally something sparkly. A time when we declare our love for someone through gifting. Nothing wrong with that, gifting is always about expressing our love and appreciation with material items. A gift, like our love, is with the intent of lasting value.
But for many people, tomorrow is Thursday, just another Thursday in a long list of Thursdays. That is not meant to be sad, either, some people just don’t care about V-Day. Some people don’t have a romantic partner and don’t care about that either. But for those that don’t have one and do care, tomorrow can be a difficult reminder of the single state. It is during those times, that one must remember that love can come in many forms and from many places.
We were created out of love and joy, not just from our birth parents, but from the Creator. No matter your upbringing, environment, personal characteristics or anything about you, you are loved and you are lovable.
Have you ever reached down to pet a puppy? Unconditional love and joy bounces up and licks your fingers. Or waved at a baby in a stroller in the grocery store. Their little eyes focus on you, sparkling a little as the hint of a grin curves their lips. A hug from a friend you haven’t seen in a long while. I could keep going with a list of every molecule of love that surrounds you, but I don’t have that much time to write and the file would be too big to upload. That’s a lot of LOVE!
But the biggest love of all, is the love you feel for yourself. When you love yourself, accepting all your warts and faults and farts, you will never do without love in your life. You are lovable so there is no way you can’t not love yourself. Got that?
Love is not just all around you, it is eternally within you.
Happy Valentine’s Day!